Top Dating Tips #7: Understanding the Fallacy of Perfection

Top dating tips #7.

There are two parts to this self-limiting fallacy. The first one is the belief that you must be perfect in order to be with a beautiful women. You may believe that you have to be the perfect package: a nice car, good looks, and a nice house in order to have this gorgeous girl.

Another way to put it is that you may think that you’re not good enough. Than in this case, you may believe you don’t have what it takes to be with this girl (i.e. nice car, good looks, nice house or whatever you choose to fill in the blank). If you’re honest with yourself, than you know there have been times when you saw a beautiful girl and made such excuses.

Well, stop making excuses. They obviously are not true. Recognize the behavior for what it is and strike it out like the good reverend casts out the devil. The second part of the fallacy of perfection is that you have to be perfect in your “approach” when you communicate with women (or people in general). This has to do more with the application as you learn the skills on this site.

There is a myth that since you haven’t completed your training than you can’t act with complete confidence and skill. This is far from the truth. Another myth is that those who have mastered the skills to seduce women are perfect. It is impossible to be perfect. And even the greatest seducers are not perfect and do not have to be perfect to seduce women successfully. Strive simply to be outstanding and you’ll do wonders.

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