The Secrets of Seducing Women Revealed

Right tools, right mindset, right path to seducing women

Seducing women is a balancing act. Once you learn how to balance it, you'll be able to seduce women effortlessly. Believe me, it's not as hard as you think.

First off, there are many books and techniques available about seducing women, but it almost always comes down to two core issues. That is banter and rapport. These are the two things that you'll balance. It is essential that you understand the concept behind this before you begin using it to seduce. Banter is best described as a playful teasing. If this does not make sense to you, I have included some synonyms. Synonyms are: teasing, mockery, joking, repartee, wit, chitchat, chat, and flirting.

On the other side of the spectrum is rapport building. I call it rapport building because rapport takes time to construct. Rapport must be genuine in order for you to seduce girls. It is very difficult to fake rapport so it is best to show your true side. Some synonyms for rapport include relationship, understanding, bond, link, affinity, connection and empathy (do not confuse this with sympathy).

Now that you understand that, take a look at the chart below. If it seems complex and not related, the chart should sort out some confusion. Believe me, this may seem like a great deal of work now, but the sooner you understand it, the more effective you will become with seducing women. By reading this and educating yourself, you're already on your way of having more choice of women!

You see, each women has their own level of banter versus rapport. In order to successfully seduce girls, you simply find the level of banter versus rapport that she operates on. Some girls are more serious (need more rapport) while other girls are highly playful (more banter). However, finding out what level she operates on is an advanced skill. (I will discuss this in more detail later on.)

The thing that is more important when you first begin is to know that you can successfully use both banter and rapport in different situations. You want to be confident in knowing how to use both banter and rapport and when to use them in order to seduce women successfully.

How you Can Use Banter to Seduce Women Successfully

Think of banter as making fun of the girl. You want to pick something that you can make fun of her. Let me give you an example. I went swimming not too long ago and there were some girls in the class that I got to know.

One day one of the girls suggested that we race together. This was a nice idea. But there is a twist. I knew that she couldn't swim that well so I saw this as an opportunity to tease her. Here's how it went.

Her: Hey, let's race together
Me: But you're so slow
Her: Hey! (Pushes water into my face)
Me: (Big Smile)

If she mocks as if she got offended, this is a good reaction. And she wants more. We both laughed and had a good time.

I was recently playing tennis with a girl that I have known for while (Notice that I don't say "friend" or think of her as a friend. Click to this link to find out about the "friend trap" and how it ruins your chances of seducing women).

After this story, you'll have solid proof that banter works. You see, I have been playing tennis with this girl for several occasions. I sort of teased with her before, but never really effectively used banter. I didn't think she would respond well to this sort of thing because I knew she was a traditional and somewhat conservative girl. However, this time I decided to give it a shot and see how good my banter skills where in seducing women.

We started warming up by hitting balls back and forth. After a while it was apparent that she was not as good as me (of course I knew this from playing her before.)

When we were collecting the balls and she asked why "we" didn't play so well, I saw this as an opportunity. Of course, here's the dialogue.

Her: Hey, how come we're not playing so well today?
Me: You want to know why?
Her: (Of course she wants to know) Why?
Me: Because you suck. (I say this with a grin on my face).
Her: What!

After that we both laughed or at least I did while she's plotting to get back at me. Either way, I've just created a little circle just for the both of us where she has actively decided to take part in. The seduction process has started.

And to make it even better, banter could be implemented through action as well. I think this rarely gets talked about, but its effects are perhaps even more powerful than using words in seducing women.

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